
Those who are unfamiliar with Vedic customs find it hard to believe that someone can live without eating meat or drinking alcohol. What’s even more surprising is that people who grow up in America and other countries around the world which don’t have a steeped tradition of Vedic culture can also give up these bad habits. The secret to this renunciation is attachment, the development of a higher taste. Vishnu devotees have found something that gives them thrills and highs that far surpass the temporary feelings of happiness derived from engagement in sinful activities such as drinking and taking drugs. This ananda, or bliss, can only be achieved through association with the Supreme Lord.
Since there is essentially no difference between Vishnu and Krishna, devotees of either or both are referred to as Vaishnavas. A key distinction between an untrained theist and a Vaishnava is that a devotee of Vishnu voluntarily gives up what are known as the four pillars of sinful life: meat eating, gambling, illicit sex, and intoxication. One may wonder what these activities have to do with God. After all, isn’t it enough to just believe in God? The reason these activities are deemed sinful is that they cause one to be bound up in the illusion of this material world. Illusion means taking something to be one thing when, in reality, it is something else. The world we live in is deemed to be illusory because it makes us think that we will be happy associating with it.
Material happiness is an illusion because matter itself is constantly changing, being subject to creation, maintenance, and dissolution. Sex life which is against religious principles serves as a great example in illustrating this point. When men and women reach a mature age, they seek out each other’s company. Men look for certain traits in a woman, and women have their own set of qualities they look for in a man, but a commonality exists in that both groups look for beauty. They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but there is no denying that beauty is often related to a person’s outward features. These features consist of matter, for that is what the gross body is comprised of. The body is constantly changing: from boyhood to youth, from youth to adult, from adult to old age. Though the body constantly changes, the identity of the owner of the body doesn’t. This is because the spirit soul residing within the body is what determines a person’s identity; it forms the essence of existence. The outward covering is simply a dress, something which gets worn out over time.
Returning to the spiritual world is actually quite easy. We simply have to have a sincere desire to associate with God. If this desire remains with us at the time of death, in our next life we receive a spiritual body. If we assume a spiritual body, naturally we will live in the spiritual world. Krishna’s promise to us is that once we assume a spiritual body, we will never be subject to the forces of the material world again. This means that our days of being tricked by material nature will be over.
So this seems simple enough; just desire to be with God. Here’s the catch though. In our current conditioned state, we have a tight attachment to sinful activity. This attachment is not very easy to give up. Even if we want to be with God, if we still have an addiction to any sinful activity, we will be forced to accept another material body at the time of death. To help us remain on the virtuous path, the great Vaishnava saints recommend that we kick our addiction to the above mentioned pillars of sinful life. No meat eating, no gambling, no intoxication, and no illicit sex.
This sentiment is echoed by many people who live in countries which have a rooted tradition of meat eating and intoxication. “If we give up these activities, what will we do for fun? What will we eat?” These are certainly valid concerns, which luckily have been addressed by the great devotees of Krishna. The acharyas tell us that more than simply giving up activities, we need to take up a full-time engagement which will make us automatically give up all bad habits. This engagement is known as bhakti-yoga, or devotional service. The primary component of devotional service is chanting. If we regularly recite God’s names, “Hare Krishna Hare Krishna, Krishna Krishna, Hare Hare, Hare Rama Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare”, we will slowly develop an attachment to God.
Associating with Krishna by these methods is in some ways better than offering service to Him face-to-face. This is because if we hear about Krishna or chant His name, many of our inhibitions are removed. Our love for Him is free to grow, and it doesn’t get checked by any social conventions or self-consciousness. We are free to love the Lord unconditionally, without any expectation of reciprocation.
Due to His causeless mercy upon the fallen conditioned living entities, Krishna descends to earth in a spiritual form from time to time. He enacts pastimes, punishes the miscreants, and gives pleasure and protection to the Vaishnavas. One such appearance took place many thousands of years ago in the Treta Yuga, the second time period of creation. Appearing on earth as Lord Rama, the handsome and pious prince of Ayodhya, God’s mission was to kill the Rakshasa demon Ravana. In order to facilitate Ravana’s destruction, Rama needed an excuse to take him on in battle. This excuse came through the kidnapping of Sita Devi, Lord Rama’s wife, by Ravana.
Sita is saying that she has already tasted pure bliss through association with God. She was more than just an associate; she was God’s wife, His eternal consort. Sita and Rama can never be separated at any time. Even though Ravana kidnapped her, he was only able to touch and see a material version of Sita. The sinful and the materially conditioned can never see God and His pure devotees for who they truly are. This flawed mindset leads them to view the deities in temples as ordinary wood or stone statues.
Having found a higher taste, Sita could not tolerate the mundane enjoyment provided by matter. Her statement also shows that she had completely renounced material life, something which is not common for women. The sannyasa-ashrama, as well as the entire varnashrama- dharma system, is intended primarily for men. A woman’s dharma is that she should be dedicated to her husband, and thereby share in the results of his pious activities. Sita, being a pure devotee, transcended all these rules and regulations. This proves that any person, regardless of their race, gender, or ethnicity, can take to devotional service and achieve perfection in life. Being madly in love with God is the true sign of one in the renounced order. The lesson here is that we can easily renounce all sinful activity simply by accepting a higher taste, the sweet transcendental mellow of pure loving association with the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
