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Why is losing weight so difficult? It shouldn’t be, for only simple action is required. Eat this thing and that. And then don’t eat anymore. The result is practically guaranteed. Just as the sun comes up in the morning, the weight will gradually decrease when this prescription is followed.
Why is quitting smoking so difficult? Just don’t do it anymore. Save a lot of money in the process. When the urge comes to smoke, don’t give in. And it’s not like cigarettes have to be all around you. Simply don’t go to the store to buy them. Then eventually quitting will be a reality. So many people don’t smoke and live just fine. It is indeed possible.
Indeed, in the human form of life it is difficult to give up so many things. The habits most difficult to break are found in the adults; which means that at the start of life there are no such addictions. The difficulty lies in the mind and the senses. Yet both of these things can be controlled. The ability to control is a special gift to the human species and it is given by the Supreme Personality of Godhead.
With an uncontrolled mind we say whatever we want. We don’t think of the long term consequences. But there are consequences. As an example, we can take the broadcasting of intentions. There is the negative in that the more people know about you, the more they can use that information against you. With an uncontrolled mind, you tell everything that you’re thinking as soon as you think it, and you suffer later on.
Overeating is a product of uncontrolled senses. The enjoyment is immediate, but later on things may not be so great. Bad habits such as smoking, drug addiction, gambling, and illicit sex are all due to uncontrolled senses. The mind is for controlling the senses, but often it is the other way around.
The benefit to controlling both the mind and the senses is strong and meaningful interaction with the spiritual side of life. Indeed, there is really no other purpose. If the goal was to do whatever the mind and the senses wanted, the animal species would be preferable. Without an attention to the spiritual side, the human birth is regressive. It is going backwards in the evolutionary chain, since there are so many new miseries to deal with.
The human body is a gift from God meant to be used for connecting with Him. A controlled mind helps me to create a regimen of chanting the holy names: Hare Krishna Hare Krishna, Krishna Krishna, Hare Hare, Hare Rama Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare. Controlled senses help me to rely on only the mercy of the Lord for food. This special kind of food is known as prasadam, and it has amazing healing properties.
man-manā bhava mad-bhakto
mad-yājī māṁ namaskuru
mām evaiṣyasi yuktvaivam
ātmānaṁ mat-parāyaṇaḥ
“Engage your mind always in thinking of Me, offer obeisances and worship Me. Being completely absorbed in Me, surely you will come to Me.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 9.34)
In Closing:
With restraints on senses none,
Happy now, pain later to come.
To control the senses is the mind,
But often opposite way you’ll find.
Restrict but for pleasure to grow,
Since then easier Krishna to know.
Into the Divine bliss to lift,
This human birth’s real gift.

