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1. Sita Devi
You would think that sacrificing regal comforts for supporting her husband in a time of difficulty would win some acclaim. Especially during that time period the chastity of a wife was highlighted. When a member of the family exhibits certain admirable traits, the guardians share in the glory.
“Oh, look at this child. They were raised right. Their parents must be of such good character. Rare it is to find someone of that quality. Looks like there is still hope in this world.”
Sita Devi was from Videha. Her father was the venerable King Janaka. There was qualification based on ancestry and then marriage. She was the patni in all dharma to Shri Rama, the prince of Ayodhya. She carried herself with the utmost grace and composure, while enduring three mothers-in-law from her new family.
2. King Nriga
You try to do everything the right way. Maintain peace and prosperity. Keep everyone happy. Do not violate the all-important property rights of others. Keep everyone engaged in the occupation that best suits them. Maintain equality in the sense that every person receives the same amount of protection from the government.
Even with so much careful attention, maintaining a watchful eye, King Nriga slipped up. He accidentally donated a cow to one brahmana. That cow happened to belong to another brahmana, but the king did not know. The priestly class can lose their temper every now and then. Supplication from the king did not help. He was cursed to suffer in the future.
Fortunately, the curse turned into a blessing. Though in the form of a lizard and stuck in a well, he was eventually liberated through direct contact with Shri Krishna.
3. Shri Krishna
Bhagavan Himself. His expert capability demonstrated many a time. Protecting His friends and relatives from danger. Escaping the constant and annoying attack of the rival king named Jarasandha. Ensuring that everyone was safe and protected in the community of Dvaraka.
Yet even He was defamed. A rumor once spread that Krishna had stolen a jewel. Known as Syamantaka, it could produce endless amounts of gold when cared for properly. As His Divine Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada says, where there is gold you will find lying, cheating and overall adharma [irreligiosity]. Thus it is not surprising that the jewel turned into something like a hot potato.
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The ways of the material world are such that no one is entirely safe from defamation. No one can maintain a completely spotless reputation, no matter how much they try. Moreover, the viewpoint of other flawed human beings should not be impetus to drastically alter behavior.
It is the opinion of Shri Krishna that matters most. He is the judge, the ever-watchful eye taking the assessment particularly at the time of death. The consciousness while quitting the body determines the next kind of birth, and so one who is remembering the king of Dvaraka automatically reaches the most auspicious destination.
Reaching auspicious destination,
When faithful determination.
That for Krishna alone,
Consciousness my own.
My fate then protected,
Not from criticism projected.
Where ruined even best reputation,
From flawed envy fixation.

